寻乌家长和幼师必看：低声教育，你能做到吗？
<section class="" style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;line-height:="" 27.2px;widows:="" 1;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><section style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;-webkit-border-image: url(" https:="" mmbiz.qpic.cn="" mmbiz="" z9433ragtddzjyibxvluojix9eq85rpuxw0cjjfqia64g8o4k9o36r37bcr0tpgceibglslstwx4wb0lsc2icsny1w="" 640?wx_fmt="png")" 30="" fill="" repeat;border-width:="" 20px;font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 1.4;color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);border-color:="" rgba(251,="" 150,="" 95,="" 0.47);background:="" 0.47);word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 15px; line-height: 28px; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important;">何为</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; line-height: 28px; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(255, 104, 39); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">低声教育</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 15px; line-height: 28px; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important;">？低声教育是与教育孩子大喊大叫相反的一种教育方式。家长或幼师如果经常对做错事的孩子高声斥责，对孩子的性格养成、心理健康有不利影响。这时候就要考虑改用低声教育的方式了。</span></p></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="text-align: center; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em;" helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;white-space:="" normal;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);font-size:="" 16px;text-align:="" center;line-height:="" 1.75em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">如果经常对做错事的孩子高声斥责，不仅收不到效果，反而对孩子的性格成长、心理健康有不利影响。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em;" helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 25.6px;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 25.6px;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88563" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 25.6px;border-width:="" 0px;border-style:="" none;border-color:="" initial;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><section class="" style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;width: 4em;height: 4em;background-image: url(" https:="" mmbiz.qpic.cn="" mmbiz_png="" qtg8wbosmw78mld33bibbzgjqgylgne56iezfarimw5qiaktscib3el3jvjkbw2zgcnquvticn8lvyyaulqsicul3a="" 640?wx_fmt="png");background-size:" 100%;background-repeat:="" no-repeat;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><section style="padding-top: 0.75em; padding-left: 0.75em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 2.5em; height: 2.5em; border-radius: 50%; text-align: center; color: white; display: inline-block; background-color: rgb(255, 57, 31);"><p style="padding-top: 9px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">0<span class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1</span></p></section></section></section></section><section data-author="Wxeditor" style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;line-height:="" 27.2px;widows:="" 1;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><article class="" data-author="Wxeditor" style="margin: 5px auto; max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; padding: 3px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(6, 6, 6); border-width: 1px; border-style: dashed; border-color: rgb(169, 129, 44); border-radius: 20px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); line-height: 25px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 76, 0); font-size: 16px; line-height: 28px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">对孩子大声吼叫的坏处非常多</span></strong></p></section><section class="" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; width: 0px; height: 0px; border-width: 10px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(169, 129, 44) transparent transparent; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section></article></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">经常性的大声吼叫，对亲子关系影响很差，会造成以后孩子对他人的不信任感。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">小的时候被经常惊吓，大了会走两个极端，一个是非常胆小怕事，一个是情绪变化会非常大。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;font-size:="" 16px;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);line-height:="" 1.75em;text-align:="" center;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">常常骂、大声骂、越骂越听不见</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">人的大脑有个特性，对习惯性的东西常常视而不见，听而不闻。第一次大声责骂时，孩子“如你所愿”能被吓哭，但是次数多后就习惯了，每次被骂的时候注意力都是游离的，所谓“入鲍鱼之肆，久闻而不知其臭”。</span></p><p style="text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);" helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""></p><p style="margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;font-size:="" 16px;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);line-height:="" 1.75em;text-align:="" center;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">吼骂孩子是白费口舌</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">骂孩子的坏处是，他一紧张，大脑会自动转入逃生机制，他所有注意力都放在如何逃过一劫，父母就白费唇舌了。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">此外，模仿是孩子的天性，你大声吼他，他将来也会大声吼别人，对于孩子的脾性有害无益。</span></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88563" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 25.6px;border-width:="" 0px;border-style:="" none;border-color:="" initial;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><section class="" style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;width: 4em;height: 4em;background-image: url(" https:="" mmbiz.qpic.cn="" mmbiz_png="" qtg8wbosmw78mld33bibbzgjqgylgne56iezfarimw5qiaktscib3el3jvjkbw2zgcnquvticn8lvyyaulqsicul3a="" 640?wx_fmt="png");background-size:" 100%;background-repeat:="" no-repeat;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><section style="padding-top: 0.75em; padding-left: 0.75em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 2.5em; height: 2.5em; border-radius: 50%; text-align: center; color: white; display: inline-block; background-color: rgb(255, 57, 31);"><p style="padding-top: 9px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">0<span class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2</span></p></section></section></section></section><section data-author="Wxeditor" style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;line-height:="" 27.2px;widows:="" 1;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><article class="" data-author="Wxeditor" style="margin: 5px auto; max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; padding: 3px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(6, 6, 6); border-width: 1px; border-style: dashed; border-color: rgb(169, 129, 44); border-radius: 20px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); line-height: 25px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 76, 0); font-size: 16px; line-height: 28px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">低声教育的科学依据</span></strong></p></section><section class="" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; width: 0px; height: 0px; border-width: 10px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(169, 129, 44) transparent transparent; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section></article></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">心理学家发现处理同一件事情，不同的声调会收到不同的效果，大人批评孩子，用低声调孩子更容易接受。这是因为：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><section data-author="Wxeditor" style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;line-height:="" 27.2px;widows:="" 1;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 104, 39); box-sizing: border-box !important;">►</span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); font-size: 15px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1、低声调可以使人理智一些、情绪平和一些，也可使孩子抵触、逆反的心理防线有所松弛，有利于沟通。</span></p></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);" helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section data-author="Wxeditor" style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;line-height:="" 27.2px;widows:="" 1;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 104, 39); box-sizing: border-box !important;">►</span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); font-size: 15px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2、低声批评孩子，不仅可以集中对方的听力，而且也可以先发制人，不让孩子使用高声调。</span></p></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section data-author="Wxeditor" style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;line-height:="" 27.2px;widows:="" 1;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 104, 39); box-sizing: border-box !important;">►</span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); font-size: 15px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3、低声调可以赶走愤怒。父母是孩子的第一位老师，遇事暴躁，不冷静，开口大声责骂的父母，对孩子的性格有消极的作用。</span></p></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88563" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 25.6px;border-width:="" 0px;border-style:="" none;border-color:="" initial;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><section class="" style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;width: 4em;height: 4em;background-image: url(" https:="" mmbiz.qpic.cn="" mmbiz_png="" qtg8wbosmw78mld33bibbzgjqgylgne56iezfarimw5qiaktscib3el3jvjkbw2zgcnquvticn8lvyyaulqsicul3a="" 640?wx_fmt="png");background-size:" 100%;background-repeat:="" no-repeat;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><section style="padding-top: 0.75em; padding-left: 0.75em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 2.5em; height: 2.5em; border-radius: 50%; text-align: center; color: white; display: inline-block; background-color: rgb(255, 57, 31);"><p style="padding-top: 9px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">0<span class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3</span></p></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;line-height:="" 27.2px;widows:="" 1;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 25.6px;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);text-align:="" center;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 76, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(192, 80, 77); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 76, 0); font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">低声教育的办法措施</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(192, 80, 77); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></strong></span><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 25.6px;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;font-size:="" 16px;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);line-height:="" 1.75em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(192, 80, 77); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1、运用正确的语气和措词</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">说话前请三思，运用恰当的语气和措词，效果会很好。比如<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我爱你，但是你的行为我不能接受”</strong>，这种话初听会觉得很生硬，但过一会儿，孩子很自然就会明白你的意思了。</span></p><p style="text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);" helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;line-height:="" 27.2px;widows:="" 1;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;font-size:="" 16px;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);line-height:="" 1.75em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2、把你所期望孩子要做到的要求解释给他们听</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">比如带孩子逛超市，告诉他不要乱动商品，并警告如果违反的后果将是什么。你要从头到尾贯彻到底，无需大声威胁。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 25.6px;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;font-size:="" 16px;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);line-height:="" 1.75em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3、不要使用伤害孩子自尊心的语言</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">就事论事，不要随意发泄对孩子的情绪，不要使用伤害孩子自尊心的语言。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">别人的尊重、信任，会使孩子产生自信，是他们前进的重要动力。打骂教育绝对不是最好的办法，一时起到的作用也不会长久。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;line-height:="" 27.2px;widows:="" 1;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88563" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 25.6px;border-width:="" 0px;border-style:="" none;border-color:="" initial;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><section class="" style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;width: 4em;height: 4em;background-image: url(" https:="" mmbiz.qpic.cn="" mmbiz_png="" qtg8wbosmw78mld33bibbzgjqgylgne56iezfarimw5qiaktscib3el3jvjkbw2zgcnquvticn8lvyyaulqsicul3a="" 640?wx_fmt="png");background-size:" 100%;background-repeat:="" no-repeat;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><section style="padding-top: 0.75em; padding-left: 0.75em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 2.5em; height: 2.5em; border-radius: 50%; text-align: center; color: white; display: inline-block; background-color: rgb(255, 57, 31);"><p style="padding-top: 9px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">0<span class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">4</span></p></section></section></section></section><section data-author="Wxeditor" style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;line-height:="" 27.2px;widows:="" 1;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><article class="" data-author="Wxeditor" style="margin: 5px auto; max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; padding: 3px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(6, 6, 6); border-width: 1px; border-style: dashed; border-color: rgb(169, 129, 44); border-radius: 20px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); line-height: 25px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 76, 0); font-size: 16px; line-height: 28px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">管教孩子，不用吼的用什么？</span></strong></p></section><section class="" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; width: 0px; height: 0px; border-width: 10px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(169, 129, 44) transparent transparent; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section></article></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 1.75em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1、耐心倾听</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">管教孩子，关键是要找出孩子犯错的原因，从源头下手。此时老师家长应先冷静下来，多一分耐心，问问孩子这么做的原因是什么。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">当了解孩子的想法，帮孩子解决问题时，也许就会发现孩子的行为其实是情有可原的，并且也已经释放掉了很多负面的情绪。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 1.75em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2、放下身段</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">同孩子做协商，有些家长总喜欢用以上对下的态度来对待孩子，这样做往往会激化矛盾，不妨放下身段，各退一步也许是很好的方法。</span></p><p style="text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);" helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">比如当孩子想要跳沙发，而家长却有事情要思考的时候，就可以请孩子去卧室的床上跳，或者请他等一会再跳，或者等事情处理完，再带孩子去公园尽情地跳。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 1.75em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3、让孩子去体验后果</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">如果孩子老是听不进大人的话，你再怎么吼叫也是无用的。那么在保证安全和没有恶劣后果的前提下，家长也可以让孩子自己会“自食恶果”的滋味。通过自身的切实体验，深刻领悟到家长的教导有多么正确和重要。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 1.75em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">4、除了平时的告诫，也要在实际的情境中教导孩子一定的道理。</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">让孩子换位思考，明白自己的行为会如何影响他人。至于解说道理的方式，则可依孩子的年龄来选择讲解的深度，特别小的孩子可以用讲故事的方式来进行。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;color:="" rgb(62,="" 62,="" 62);font-size:="" 16px;line-height:="" 1.75em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">5、给孩子另一个选择</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;font-size:="" 17px;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;text-align:="" justify;white-space:="" normal;widows:="" 1;line-height:="" 2em;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(100, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box !important;">当孩子犯了错误，你不要只是吼叫孩子，说教大道理，而是要给孩子另一个选择。也就是说，不要只说“不可以”，请指出一条可以的路来给他走。</span></p> 这个貌似蛮妙的
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