专家说的育儿方法我都试了，为啥没有用？
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section class="xmteditor" style='display:none;' data-tools="新媒体管家" data-label="powered by xmt.cn"></section><p><br></p><section class="xmteditor" style='display:none;' data-tools="新媒体管家" data-label="powered by xmt.cn"></section><p style='text-align: left;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);'> 半年前，我还没把拉粉丝群这个艰巨任务移交给1米8长腿助理的时候，经常有小伙伴加上我微信后问，daisy，真的是你吗？是活的吗？？？</span></p><p style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>虽然后半句让我联想到海鲜市场的活鱼，但我知道她们是想问是博主本人吗——毕竟一般博主是不会沦落到连读者群都要亲自拉的。</span></p><p style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我答，是活的。</span></p><p style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></p><p style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);'>太好了，请教你个问题，我女儿1岁半，跟早教班孩子互动的时候，经常...（省略300字）... 你说我该怎么办？</span></p><p style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我的偶像包袱很重，一般遇到这样的提问，不敢说指导，只要有时间我就会跟对方讨论下，交流过程对我自己来说也是学习机会。</span><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p><p style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong><span style='color: rgb(234, 85, 20); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>但是慢慢地，我不想再讨论这些问题了。</span></strong></p><p style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不是我飘了，而是我发现，每次当我提出一个建议或想法，八成概率会得到这样的答复——</span></p><p style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(234, 85, 20); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>你说的这个方法我早试过了，没啥用。</span></strong></p><p style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>如果我不再回复，对方可能就会说，daisy，我是真心提问的，</span><strong><span style='color: rgb(234, 85, 20); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>所以你也没什么办法了吗？</span></strong></p><p style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></p><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>这时候一般有两种情况。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong><span style='color: rgb(234, 85, 20); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一、我是真的没什么办法了。</span></strong></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);'>很惊讶吗？</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>为了输出优质内容，我持续自学儿童发展与心理，读了不少相关书籍，上了不少付费课程。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>但我心里也很有数，怎么自学都是半路出家，缺乏自上而下的完整知识体系。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我不是育儿专家，公号里的所有分享，都是实践和弯路摸索出来的经验。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong><span style='max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(234, 85, 20); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);'>我也不认为那些育儿专家就可以见招拆招，没</span><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);'>什么招是可以稳赢一个娃的。</span></span></strong></section><p style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 507px;height: 335px;'></span></p><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>知己知彼百战不殆，虽然我们不至于把娃当成阶级敌人来战<span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 13px;'>（但有时候感觉是也差不多了...），</span>但其实你才是这场战争中最大的胜出者，</span><strong><span style='max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(234, 85, 20); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);'>你有任何</span><span style='max-width: 100%; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-size: 15px;'>育儿专家和育儿博主都不具的优势——知彼。</span></span></strong></section><section style='margin: 5px 8px 25px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px;'>我队友之前在哄睡投稿里写了他的一个心</span><span style='max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);'>理活动：</span></span></section><blockquote class="" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="67" data-source-title="" style='color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5); max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section class="" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 5px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我为什么坚持用别人设计的方法来“训练”我自己的宝宝呢？别人又不认识我宝宝，哪怕这个方法适用于全世界99%的宝宝，万一饼饼是那个1%呢？</span></section></section></section></blockquote><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>说的就是这个理。</span><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>没有最好的男人，只有最适合你的男人——这句是我们已婚妇女用来自我麻痹的；</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong><span style='color: rgb(234, 85, 20); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>没有最好的育儿方法，只有最适合你娃的方法——这句是事实。</span></strong></section><p style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 574px;height: 377px;'></span></p><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>曾有妈妈问我，孩子三年级了，上课注意力不集中，成绩上不去，怎么办？</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我回她，这题真的超纲了。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong><span style='color: rgb(234, 85, 20); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>孩子年龄越大，你越难从他人那里寻到什么好建议，非得你亲自上阵不可。</span></strong></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>为什么？</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>情况太复杂啊！</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一个新鲜出炉的新生儿，哭了闹了我们还能分析出个一二三，什么情况下可能是饿了，什么情况下可能是胀气了，不然你看看ta尿布吧是不是拉了啊？通过现象之所以有机会看到本质，无非是因为情况太简单。<br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></section><p style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 574px;height: 380px;'></span></p><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>但一个小学生，你看到ta“上课注意力不集中”只是表象，问题根源甚至可能要回溯到幼儿时期的习惯，可能是一年级时遇到的一个事件，可能是二年级暑假里玩的手机游戏，也可能是家庭原因，甚至可能来自社会，情况太复杂了。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>除非你有机会携娃跟专业人士面对面深入讨论细节，深挖问题根源，并且不断追踪，才</span><strong><span style='font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(234, 85, 20); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>有可能</span></strong><span style='font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>找到一个</span><strong><span style='font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(234, 85, 20); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>靠谱的解决方案</span></strong><span style='font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>。</span></section><p style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>反之，有一搭没一搭地广撒网问别人建议，抱着撞运气的心态看看对方有什么妙招，然后死马当活医逐个拿来往自己孩子身上套，那最后你只能得出一个结论——</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 190px !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><p style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></p><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>另一种情况更常见一些，但说出来你可能会觉得我在敷衍，甚至想取关——</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(234, 85, 20); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>二、没用就再多试一段时间啊。</span></strong></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>根据我个人带娃经验，把育儿书或别人的方法用到自家娃身上，</span><strong style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(234, 85, 20); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一次成功的概率</span></strong><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 15px;'><strong style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;'><span style='max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); color: rgb(234, 85, 20); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>约等于零。</span></strong></span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>但我不会因此就说，这什么破书啊浪费劳资时间！</span></section><p style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 574px;height: 383px;'></span></p><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);'>广播里卖</span><span style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);'>神药的都不敢说药到病除永不复发呢，一个疗程用完还得再送你一个疗程巩固一下呢；</span></span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>村头跳大神的还有完整的驱魔流程呢，一次驱不出来还要换个咒再试试呢。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; min-height: 1em; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>那为什么你觉得育儿方法就必须立竿见影？一次两次没效果就是方法有问题？</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong><span style='color: rgb(234, 85, 20); max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>努力都不见得一定有收获，何况“试过了”根本不叫努力。</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 544px !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我在公号里写“德国幼儿园老师才是育儿大v本人”，分享了不少育儿方法。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>有条留言说，这些都是一次成功的案例，我想看老师一次共情不成功，两次共情娃不理的故事。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我猜测留言者的心态无非两种：<br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一，我想知道除了文中提到的，你到底还有什么高招？<br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>二，我就是想看什么方法都没用的翻车现场，找找平衡。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong><span style='color: rgb(234, 85, 20); letter-spacing: 1px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不用看老师翻车，我是个不怕人设崩塌的博主，我承认当我自己在家实践那些方法，也会翻车。</span></strong></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong><span style='color: rgb(234, 85, 20); letter-spacing: 1px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>但我不会因此下结论说，对不起打脸了，那些方法没啥用。</span></strong></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>只要方法背后的理念可以说服我，即使今天明天都失败了，后天大后天我还会继续尝试。</span></section><p style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></p><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>培养娃的习惯也是同理。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>想想娃为了学会一样本领，需要反复练习多少遍才能掌握？</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>想想你为了养成一项习惯，需要在朋友圈打卡多少天？</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>怕是打了21天的卡仍然没有养成习惯，甚至引起了“本我”的反抗。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px 5px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong><span style='color: rgb(234, 85, 20); max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>既然养成习惯这么不易，为什么不给娃多一点时间，同一个方法坚持一段日子之再下“没啥用”的结论呢？</span></strong><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></strong></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px 5px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong><span style='color: rgb(234, 85, 20); max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></span></strong></section><p style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br mpa-from-tpl="t" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p><section style='margin: 5px 8px 25px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>没有立竿见影百发百中的方法，只因娃是人，不是机器。</span><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0); max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>人工智能发展到今天，机器也能像人一样拥有“思维”。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>如果人相对机器还有什么优势的话，可能就是拥有</span><strong><span style='color: rgb(234, 85, 20); max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>情感和情绪。</span></strong></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>机器“思考”的本质依然是函数，尽管不像映射那么简单，但当你给它一个输入，就有机会预判输出的方向。</span></section><p style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></p><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>人就不同了。</span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>人的情感情绪决定了个体间不可能完全相同，同个体的这一秒和下一秒不可能完全相同。</span><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></strong></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong><span style='max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); color: rgb(234, 85, 20); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>具体到育儿上，你对两个娃给同样的输入（育儿方法），不可能得到完全相同的输出（收获效果）；你对同一个娃在不同时间和情况下给出相同的输入，也不保证总有相同的输出。</span></strong></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>如果有一天你发现，用了方法a就</span><span style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一定能收到结果b，用了方法c就一定能收到结果d，那你才应该觉得脊背发凉——这是不是意味着人被算法控制了？</span></span></section><section style='margin: 25px 8px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0); max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; caret-color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>还好我们娃都是有血有肉的人，只有ta们控制我们的份儿。</span></section></div>
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