我国有这样一位老师，一个班37人考进清华北大。
<section class="wx96Diy cur" data-source="bj.96weixin.com"><p style="text-align: center;"><img class="" data-src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/z9433rAGTDdhvSHINweEibbQvibXaAN7La6ecRoKNCIyVIDFInQg1JHiamvqvmgYNUOVN49ia64OiapWOy0X6Av7XOQ/0?wx_fmt=gif" data-ratio="0.26666666666666666" data-w="750"></p></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 29.2571px;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 7em; height: 7em; display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; border-radius: 100%; border: 5px solid white; box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 1px 1px 2px; background-image: url(http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/DaA3uQOxia20oBlE509VaTwempwUugLPmgKJyR01DHYKI341u3PpvNxxWLskMWibU06Hm9PtdpRSWecE1Qzwh1uw/0?wx_fmt=jpeg); background-size: 105.422%; background-position: 0% 2.9339%; background-repeat: no-repeat;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 102px; height: 102px; overflow: hidden;"><br></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 102px; height: 102px; overflow: hidden;"><br></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 102px; height: 102px; overflow: hidden;"><br><img class="" data-ratio="1.265536723163842" data-src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/DaA3uQOxia20oBlE509VaTwempwUugLPmgKJyR01DHYKI341u3PpvNxxWLskMWibU06Hm9PtdpRSWecE1Qzwh1uw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="354" style="box-sizing: border-box; opacity: 0; vertical-align: middle; visibility: visible !important; width: 102px !important;" width="100%"></section></section><section class="" style="margin-top: -3em; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; padding-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 2px dotted rgb(249, 110, 87); border-radius: 0.3em; background-color: rgba(255, 112, 5, 0.0588235);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="padding-top: 3.5em; padding-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: left; color: rgb(249, 110, 87);"><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 0em; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">开学了，一个班主任给家长发了一则短信：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">不管成绩怎样，没有什么优生差生的区别。家长们知道，每一个小孩都是种子，只是每个人花期不同，有的花一开始，就绚丽绽放；而有的花， 却需要漫长的等待。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> 不要紧盯别人的花，不要觉得别人家的永远都是好，相信花有自己的花期，细心呵护，看着他一点点地成长，这何尝不是一种幸福。也许你的种子永远都不开花，因为他是一棵参天大树。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> 我国有这样一位老师，他带的一个<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">55人的班，37人考进清华、北大，10人进入剑桥大学、耶鲁大学、牛津大学等世界名校并获全额奖学金，其他考入复旦、南开等大学。</span>不仅如此，校足球冠军、校运动会总冠军、校网页设计大赛总冠军等６项文体冠军，都被这个班夺走；音乐才子、辩论高手、电脑奇才、跆拳道高手在这个班比比皆是。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> 他也是一名相当成功的父亲，他的女儿也以优异成绩被北大录取。他就是全国优秀教师，</span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">人大附中数学老师王金战</span>。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> 以下是王老师总结的教育经验，强烈建议每位父母花约三分钟时间阅读，仔细品味一定会受益匪浅！</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></strong></p></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: 670px; vertical-align: top;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: 670px; border: 2px dotted rgb(249, 110, 87); border-radius: 0.7em;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(249, 110, 87);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 0em; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.6; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">01.</span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 0em; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.6; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">影响孩子成绩的主要因素不是学校，而是家庭。</span></span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">如果家庭教育出了问题，孩子在学校就可能会过的比较辛苦，孩子很可能会成为学校的“问题儿童”。</span></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">02. <strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">心底秘密是人成长，成熟的标志。</span></span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">如果孩子有心事，他不想告诉你，那么，不要逼迫孩子把他的秘密说出来。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 0em; text-align: left;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">03. </span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">成绩好的孩子，妈妈通常是有计划而且动作利落的人。</span></span></strong>父亲越认真，越有条理，越有礼貌，孩子成绩就越好。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">04.</span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">贫穷是重要的教育资源，但并非越贫穷越有利于孩子的成长。</span></strong></strong></span>做父母的，需要为孩子提供基本的文化资料，不让孩子陷入人穷志短的自卑深渊。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 0em; text-align: left;">05. 富裕是另一种更高级的教育资源，西方人的经验是：“培育一个贵族需要三代人的努力。”“阶层是会遗传的。”但是，<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(123, 12, 0);">更高级的教育资源需要有更高级的教育技艺，如果没有更高级的教育技艺，富裕的家庭反而会给孩子的成长带来灾难。</span></strong></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: left;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">06. </span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">不要做有知识没文化的家长。</span></strong></span>有些人有高学历，但不见得有文化。如果家长不懂得生活，不知道善待他人，甚至不懂得善待自己的孩子，无论他拥有多高的学术水平，他也是没有文化的人。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">07. </span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">父母可以把孩子作为世界的中心，但是不要忘了父母也要过独立的生活。</span></strong></span>如果父母完全围绕孩子转而没有了自己的生活主题，这样的父母常常会以爱的名义干扰孩子的成长。有时侯，并不是孩子离不开父母，而是父母离不开孩子。</p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">08. 告诉你的孩子：<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.6;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">认真听讲的孩子偶尔成绩好，认真自学的孩子永远成绩好。</span></strong></span></strong></span></p></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.6;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">09 . </span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">让你的孩子尽早建立健康的审美观。</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有出息的男性一定会喜欢健康的女性。不要让孩子的审美观陷入低级，病态。不要以为小的，有病的，就是好的。不要以为强大的，就都是坏的。不要以为小麻雀，小绵羊，小狗都是可爱的，也不要以为狮子，老虎，狼都是坏的。不要以为豺狼都是吃人的，豺狼只吃比他弱小的。</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.6;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.6;">10. </span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.6;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.6;">夫妻关系影响孩子的性格。</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.6;">一个男人如果不尊重他的妻子，那么，他的儿子就学会了在学校不尊重他的女同学。一个女人如果不尊重她的丈夫，那么，她的女儿就学会了在学校瞧不起她的男同学。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(249, 110, 87);"></span></strong></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">11. <span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">教育就是培育人的精神长相。</span></strong></span>家长和教师的使命就是让孩子逐步对自己的精神长相负责任，去掉可能沾染的各种污秽，培育人身上的精神“种子”，让人可以呼吸高山空气，让人可以扬眉吐气。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">12. <span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">有修养的父母是“伏尔泰主义者”，“我不同意你的观点，但我誓死捍卫你说话的权利”。</span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">他们从孩子出生的那天就开始跟孩子讲道理，耐心的征求孩子的意见。</span></strong>不要指望打骂孩子就能让孩子学会服从。杀鸡给猴看的结果是：猴子也学会了杀鸡。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">13. <span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">让孩子成为既有激情又有理智的人。</span></strong></span>“没有激情，任何伟业都不可能善始，没有理智，任何壮举都不能善终。”</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">14. <span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">让你的孩子成为有教养的人</span></strong>，</span>有教养从守时，排队，在公共场合不大声说话，不轻易发怒开始。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">15. <span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">做人要厚道。</span></strong></span>如果你的孩子比较厚道，请不要嘲笑他的软弱。喜欢占小便宜的人，往往吃大亏，因为他被别人厌恶。愿意吃小亏的人，将来会占大便宜，因为他被人喜欢。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">16. <span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">身体的活力能够带来精神的活力。</strong></span>身体好的人，性格阳光。身体不好的人，做事犹犹豫豫，躲躲闪闪，说话吞吞吐吐。</p><p style="text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.7628571428571429" data-src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/DaA3uQOxia20oBlE509VaTwempwUugLPmId7l6s53qGt9MKdyehDrNtCmQgOibht3f0wEOxBpRpCWdk1gM9db6bw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="350" style="box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: middle; visibility: visible !important; width: auto !important;" width="auto"></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="line-height: 29.2571px;">17.</span><span style="line-height: 29.2571px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.6;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">如果没有特别困难，父母最好每天赶回家和孩子一起进餐。</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important;">家庭的共同价值观，就在全家人围着一张桌子吃饭的过程中建立起来。</span></p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.6;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">18. </span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">不是“三十而立”，而是“三岁而立”。</span></span><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子三岁前后，就必须建立自食其力的勇气和习惯。凡是自己能够做的，必须自己做，凡是自己应该做的，当尽力去做。</span><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">19. 如果你的孩子在13岁的时候喜欢弗罗斯特的诗句：<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">“两条路在树林里分岔，我选择走人少的那一条”</span></strong>，</span>这很正常，不要担心，他以后也许会选择人走的多的那一条。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">20. <span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">父母给孩子讲道理是必要的，但给13岁前后的孩子讲道理时，要注意自己讲话的姿态，姿态比道理更重要</span></strong>。</span>否则，孩子会厌恶，反抗。孩子会说：你讲的话都是对的，但你讲话的那个样子很令人讨厌。</p><p style="text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.6655172413793103" data-src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/DaA3uQOxia20oBlE509VaTwempwUugLPmJybf6SlATZKVdvfficQeVTeicbsc6bVdvW4lnEB7N7YgzwrHeElFxt9A/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="580" style="box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: middle; visibility: visible !important; width: auto !important;" width="auto"></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">21. 在孩子3岁前后，他的身边最好有一个无为的放任型父母。在孩子9岁前后，他的身边最好有一个积极的权威型父母。在孩子13岁前后，他的身边最好有个消极的民主型父母。<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">有效的教育是先严后松，无效的教育是先松后严。</span></strong></span></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">22. <span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">必须留意你的孩子的学习成绩，但也不必太在意他的名次。</span></strong></span>倒是需要警惕那些学习成绩总是第一名的孩子。有些孩子学习成绩好，性格也好，有些孩子学习成绩很好，但性格却自私，缺乏同情心，没有生活情趣。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">23. <span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">必须让你的孩子学会与他人交往并愉快的接受小伙伴。</span></strong></span>“如果父母对自己的邻居不满，对孩子的小伙伴也十分挑剔，或者不让自己的孩子和他们交朋友，让孩子觉得好像自己跟别人很不一样，那么，这些孩子长大以后就很难与任何人自然地相处。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">24.<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">孩子的成长需要同伴，让孩子有自己的朋友，但不要有太杂乱的伙伴</span></strong>，</span>在孩子没有形成成熟的理性和判断里之前，警惕孩子沾染同伴的坏习惯。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">35.<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;">《麦田里的守望者》为世界贡献了一个词语：守望。</span></strong></span>教育不是管，也不是不管。在管与不管之间，有一个词语叫“守望“。</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 29.2571px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">▲<span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">▲<span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">▲</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; 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min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">教育意味着一棵树摇动另一棵树，一朵云推动另一朵云，一个灵魂唤醒另一个灵魂。</span><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;">家长和孩子就像两颗彼此分离又相互靠近的大树和小树，大树要为小树遮挡风沙，也要给小树留下足够的空间，感受阳光，呼吸空气。这样小树才能在属于自己的空间里自由伸展，茁壮成长。太靠近大树的小树是不能长成参天大树的，而远离大树的小树却要去独自地抵挡风沙，虽坚强无比却又极易扭曲或夭折。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.6; color: rgb(123, 12, 0);">每一个小孩都是种子，请允许Ta在成长的路上跌跌撞撞。耐心的等待吧，种子一定能长成参天大树！</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><br></p><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); 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